Freedom from Loneliness - Part 2
In part 2 of this 4 part blog series, I am sharing with you the journey of 'Melinda' who allowed her story to be shared with the hope it would help others.
From last time: Last year I assisted Melinda, a woman in her mid-30's who came to me in emotional despair. She’d had a series of unfulfilling emotional relationships, and she was confused and disheartened. She wanted to have children and a family, but she couldn’t seem to find the right man. She was despairing for a relationship and for the opportunity to have children in her future. After we established the connection with her body, her muscles began indicating that she had several unhelpful beliefs held as memories in her body…
As we continued to muscle monitor and consult the body for the next imbalance her body wanted to correct, her body indicated that we had to address the word “Acceptance” at age 6.
The client remembered having performed in a small school play, which her father had only negative things to say about. Her body indicated we needed to look for behaviours on a list of co-dependant behaviours; and that the client was behaving in a way as to seek acceptance from everyone in her life.
She resonated with this statement and admitted she found herself trying very hard to please everybody around, trying to be approved of and loved by everybody. Which was fruitless and exhausting!
Until her body revealed this, she never realized this was connected to her looking for the acceptance that she was never given! We followed the guidance of the body to correct her view of herself as not good enough, so she would have self-acceptance, and we assisted her body to integrate this from age 6 to her current age. Score two for the body!
Stay tuned for part 3, when we witness even more amazing and enlightening things to learn from Melinda’s experience of listening to her body!
Have you discovered Kinesiology yet?